Okay, I figured a better way to phrase it:
The '90s, when straight men first picked up anal sex from gays but mistook the defining thing as "the guy fucks his partner in the ass" and not "the guy's partner fucks him in the ass"
Okay, I figured a better way to phrase it:
The '90s, when straight men first picked up anal sex from gays but mistook the defining thing as "the guy fucks his partner in the ass" and not "the guy's partner fucks him in the ass"